It would be boring to do same things for long time. That is why many people choose different things in life to break the boredom routine. Though they have no other options to forgo their routine schedule in career, they get engaged in different things to enjoy their life. Doing the same sort of things for long time would not only cause boredom but it is will also reduce the interest. Due to less interest, the input given and the efforts taken will also reduce. This happens in the sexual life also. The major reason for losing interest in sexual life is monotonous repeated sexual activities.
Change the place
Actually sex need not be monotonous as there are many ways to enjoy sex in interesting way. It takes just a change to enjoy interesting sex. If the person has a desire to break the monotonous sex life then they will be able to spruce up their sexual life. First thing should be enjoying sex in different places. If you are enjoying it only in bed room on bed then it will be boring because it is quite usual with no difference. The best way is to change the place. Take your bed to living room and just lay it on the floor. It would be interesting to have sex on bed which is on the floor.
Kitchen and position
If you have not tried sex in kitchen, this time try hitting it. You will love it for sure or else next time you can change the place. Unless you experiment you will not be able to find out various interesting sexual activities that suits you. The point is that if you try sex in kitchen then you must try different sex position so that you will be able to enjoy it. If you try same missionary position in kitchen in the kitchen floor then you will not like it. You have to make her sit in the counter top of kitchen so that you will enter her from your standing position. This will be awesome if she wraps her legs around your waist. With eye contact, kissing and other interesting things, this will be awesome.
Next place that you can try for steamy sex is bathroom shower. Those people that enjoy intense sex actually find this as one of the best. The reason is that it seems quite different and the shower cools the body and the sexual pleasure heats the body. Together it works awesome. Of course both of you have to be in standing position or if you have bath tub then fill it with water and foam to have pleasurable sex in it otherwise it will be best under the shower. Whoa!!! A lot of people enjoy it.
Garden or couch
If you have a garden backyard and if it is protected with fences around that no one could enter or see inside then it will be different experience to have sex there enjoying the nature. If you don’t have such place then you can try couch. There are a lot of people that love to have sex on couch. It is a compact space with only one person can lay and another person has to be on top of the person on the couch. Different types of sex position can be tried here for both intercourse and oral sex. She can sit on couch with her legs wide spread and you can do cunnilingus as you sit on the floor. You can enter from her back in doggy style on couch or other suitable positions can be tried.
Change the usual sex positions to interesting or experimenting sex positions such as butterfly position, scissor sex position, such as seventh innings, woman on top which is also called as cow girl, the lotus and many other positions. There are numerous sex positions to try and the positions given here are just unique and possible to try. Changing the sex position is a better way to spruce up your sex life because in each sex position you will find increasing pleasure. Try something new will itself increase the curiosity which will increase the intensity of sex. Don’t stick with same type of sex life. Better move on to try something that you have not tried to experience most exciting sex.
Sex is one of the major functions of the body and it is to enjoy the pleasure. Many people consider sex as strange but they have sexual desires that they don’t express it usually. Sex is not a strange thing or weird thing but it is to experience the pinnacle of pleasure. Sexual desires are common to all and people gratify their sexual desires in different ways. The sexual desires can be normal or abnormal or average or above average because it differs from each other. Some people stop having sex once they got kids. They think that sex is all about having kids and they don’t take time to enjoy sex.
No monotonous sex
People should understand that sex is a pleasure which should be enjoyed with desire. It does not mean that you could have intense desire but a simple desire can become intense if you start enjoying it. There are a lot of things to explore in sex and it can be enjoyed in different ways only by exploring. If you feel like your sexual life is boring and it happens seldom then take time to think about sex that you had so far. If you rethink about it, you will end up in finding that you have been having monotonous sex.
Get the desire
If you want to spruce up your sexual life, then you have to break all the monotonous ways that you have been doing so far and start get indulged in sex in different ways. First of all sex is a desire and you should have a desire to enjoy sex passionately otherwise it will be boring and the climax will be soon. In order to have intense sex you have to make sure that you have desire for it and not doing it simply. Like other things in the life, you have to get engaged in sex with complete involvement otherwise it will be boring. Develop the desire that makes you to involve yourself for intense passionate sex.
Don’t rush up
As you have sex, make your sex time by tasting each other bit by bit. Don’t rush up. Most of the people that have boring sexual life use to rush up and finish soon. That is not right actually because by doing such kind of sex you will lose interest gradually. Try moving slowly from the beginning. From the foreplay to the intercourse and in oral sex take more time and enjoy it to the fullest by taking it slow and then go steady. Tease your partner’s body to raise the fire so that your partner will feel like craving for climax yet don’t want it immediately. It will be awesome feeling that takes the person with curiosity towards the climax. This climax will be shuddering for sure.
Plan a time
Most of all if you want to enjoy the intense pleasure of sex, plan a separate time for it. The time that you totally allocate for sex and nothing should run in your mind. If you are occupied with a lot of things then it will affect your sexual pleasure therefore keep your mind off from different things and stay focussed on enjoying sex. That is why many people choose nigh time because it is end of the day and it is the time that they relax and rest. In such time you can have your best pleasurable sex with your partner.
Try different positions
To enjoy exciting sex you should try different sex positions. One of the best sex position is missionary but if you are experiencing the missionary position all the time then you have to try other positions also so that you can enjoy exciting sex. There are many different sex positions to enjoy and you can find the best position that suits you and your partner only if you try different sex positions. Some people love doggy sex positions and others loves cow girl likewise different people love different positions. It does not mean that only one sex position will suit you. As you explore different sex positions you can find the best positions that give you utmost pleasure for you and your partner. Always choose sex positions that are comfortable for both of you. When it comes to enjoying sex with your partner then mutual cooperation is mandatory otherwise you will not be able to get the utmost pleasure that you are looking for.